The Essence of a Woman

Author
Octa Minec Carvalho


Every human being was created uniquely both physically and psychologically is different from each other even a twin or triple. Physically every human being has the same elements of body exceptional for who are disable person. A male bodily is stronger than a woman but both needs each other. A man with his all power always categorized as superior than woman but a woman is stronger than man in term of spirituality. With the development of technology, the equality of man and woman has been improved in a last decade. In Timor-Leste the gender balance is a most priority to highlight and it has being disseminated to the remote areas.

It is also recognize that most of the structures and systems that operate in the society are largely hierarchical and male in nature (based on logical, rational, linear and organizational principles). Unless women make a conscious effort to tap in to their feminine nature (intuitive, flowing, holistic, and creative) for direction, they look instead for answers in the society outside of themselves (inherently male), and often lose confidence in their own inner guidance. They become alienated from their core wisdom and lose control of their own life. “Annie Meredith”

When we speak about the essence of a woman - her beauty - we don't mean "the perfect figure." The beauty of a woman is first a soulish beauty. We know - it's a harder jump to make. We've lived so long under the pressure to be beautiful. But stay with the thought for a moment, because it will really help. The beauty of a woman is first a soulful beauty. And yes, as we live it out, own it, inhabit our beauty, we do become more lovely. More alluring. As the poet Gerard Manley Hopkins wrote, "Self flashes off frame and face." Our true self becomes reflected in our appearance. But it flows from the inside out. “Ransomed Heart”

The women, however, still receive various mal treatment; domestic violence, sexual harassment, human trafficking and being inferior at office affairs. The exploitation of woman and children is also condemned. There are many organizations in the world which are fighting for woman right and statue and many holidays to celebrate woman dedications. The term God is the girl may be applied alternatively, every corner of the world appeal to the community and society to pay respect to human being especially woman and children. God is respected; woman and man are also kindly respecting each other.

There is a proverb saying that the heaven is at palm of mother’s foot not at the father’s one. The essence of woman was from the earliest of age could not be taken away such as biological capacity as pregnancy, giving birth and breast feeding. Men are just impregnate but not pregnant. Those designations are the greatest dedication of a woman to a life.