Happiness is mine, don’t break it, please….!!!!

When you are lonely, you don’t feel that you are alone but it is actually time for you to reflect deeply how you are. For people who equipped with the technology tools, mostly they absorb their loneliness with playing video games, on as well as off-line. This typical of people usually focus on what in front of them with no concern to the other people around.

The purpose of life is to become happy. Whatever society people live in, they all have the same deep desire: to become happy.

Yet, there are few ideals as difficult to clutch as that of happiness. In our daily life we constantly experience happiness and unhappiness, but we are still quite ignorant as to what happiness really is.

A close people of mine told me several times that no one and nothing can break whatever that makes him happy; even in the crowd place and people, long hours discussion, playing game at the room without air conditioning for more than 4 hours, snoring loudly, online chatting, etc. when I approximate him, he looks at me and speaks softly, I don’t want to be disturbed, don’t break my happiness, pleeeaaaseeee… I could just quit and away. That’s the only way to response. His happiness is in that.

At some conditions, I complain this and that, what happens and why? Cause, I still don’t break yet the secret why people enjoy reading articles on-line many hours, why people love to play game in long times without boring. Why a person is moody? Doing something just because of good mood, if she is in bad mood, things are bad and no impression at all. I accept as a true that reading articles helps you to connect with the world, also, I have a certain reason why people playing game in long hours, and it could help you to focus at something you are doing. I my quietness, he told me, I know myself better than anyone else. I know myself best whether I am feeling joy or struggling with suffering. These things are not known to other people.

So, I could conclude that happiness is freedom, free do to whatever, to be in whenever, with no disturbance of whoever. But how is about people who needs you? for this, for this, I greatly recognized that I found the answer.

Gradually, I realize that the secret of happiness lay in building a strong inner self that no trial or hardship could ruin. I see that happiness for anyone—man or woman—does not come simply from having a formal education, from wealth or from marriage. It begins with having the strength to confront and conquer one’s own weaknesses. Only then does it become possible to lead a truly happy life and enjoy a successful marriage.

written by Octa Minec Carvalho